{"id":1405,"date":"2014-06-11T17:30:27","date_gmt":"2014-06-11T16:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/?p=1405"},"modified":"2025-09-18T09:53:07","modified_gmt":"2025-09-18T08:53:07","slug":"how-to-give-a-useful-feedback","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/how-to-give-a-useful-feedback\/","title":{"rendered":"How to give a useful feedback?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever received a feedback such as you simply don&#8217;t understand what to do with it? Never&#8230;? Me neither!<\/p>\n<p>See some samples: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n&#8230;You need to delegate more!<br \/>\n&#8230;I\u2019d like you to be more committed.<br \/>\n&#8230;You\u2019re not strategic enough.<br \/>\n&#8230;I heard it was said that you&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8230;and the list goes on.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This evaluates, interprets, judges &#8230; <BIG>but does not describe the actual behavior to improve!!!<\/BIG><\/p>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_1410\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1410\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/wp-content\/image.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/wp-content\/image.jpg\" alt=\"Cc Smashing magazine\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1410\" srcset=\"https:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/wp-content\/image.jpg 500w, https:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/wp-content\/image-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/embargo.ch\/AllBlog\/wp-content\/image-1x1.jpg 1w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1410\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cc Smashing magazine<\/figcaption><\/figure><br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<BIG>Common mistakes about feedback. When it&#8230;<\/BIG><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n&#8230;Judges individuals, not actions<br \/>\n&#8230;Is too vague<br \/>\n&#8230;Speaks for others<br \/>\n&#8230;Uses the classic \u201cgood-bad-good\u201d sandwich<br \/>\n&#8230;Exaggerates with generalities<br \/>\n&#8230;Psychoanalyzes motives behind behavior<br \/>\n&#8230;Goes on for too long<br \/>\n&#8230;Uses inappropriate humor<br \/>\n&#8230;Is a question, not a statement\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>But prefer&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n&#8230;Be specific when recalling the situation<br \/>\n&#8230;Be specific when describing the behavior<br \/>\n&#8230;Acknowledge the impact of the behavior on you<br \/>\n&#8230;Pay attention to body language<br \/>\n&#8230;Use verbatim quotes when possible<br \/>\n&#8230;Give feedback in a timely manner<br \/>\n&#8230;Focus on \u201cI felt\u201d or \u201cI was\u201d statements<br \/>\n&#8230;Keep to a single message\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And most of all, it does not harm to be sensitive to the emotional impact of your feedback. 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